Random facts

I have my ears pierced once each but I never wear any earrings. it's umcomfortable.
I also am deadly afriad of getting pierced, wiuld never do it again!
I have no problems with injections or tattoos tho

^that doesn't sound like the person I know at alll...

I'd rather say you can be a pain in the ass with your positivity^^

let me say tho, that people who generally think alot about life and what is right and what isn't will often get that "know it all" thing. You just start to put your thougts out there and people will think you preach, and whenever people get that feeling they will tend to think "practice" what you preach or that you are a know it all and take it for arrogance.

I often get that, because I have so high morals, I can't even live up to them myself.
people will always think you want to be "better than them", even when in truth you just want to be better than yourself.
Don't let it get to you!

actually, the worst cases of "not minding their own business" was by people who genuinely meant well.
people who just thought "she can never be happy this way" and wanted to help.

it still sucks ofc, but I think judgemental behaviour is very human, and we tend to all do it, if we want it or not. People who fall out of society a bit usually aren't any better... it happened to me so often thta I judged people to be naive orr boring or conservative and normal just because they look like out of a H&M store and have a normal happy family life with a housewife, a family car and a money earning father... yet those people suddenly were some of the warmest, most open minded and genuine people I met...

I guess what I'm trying to say is, don't judge people who judge, try to understand them, talk to them and therby change their minds or something

beautïful wrote: All your latest posts here are very interesting and I can relate to much you folks wrote.


I like the strangest kinds of people.

And I just bought one cellphone in my life, used and cheap on ebay, all my others were gifts. Most of them didn't even have a coloured display. Never was into cellphones or other electronics, me. I'm kinda shocked by the kids I see each other day in the bus, sitting together while abusing facebook, just talking what the others wrote on their profile and what they will write back any second. I always think maybe there IS something about all that end of the world talk after all then.

I kinda agree with what you say, it's terrible, but I am addicted to my iPhone. I use to say "my friends live in there", and it's true, without all that social network stuff and the possibility to use it all the time, I would have no social life or friends at all I think. so it's not all bad, as long as you manage to connect it to real life

random Fact to stay on topic:
I get depressed when I don't get my chocolate milk now and then. and it NEEDS to be the riight kind of cacao pulver, or it doesn't count!

Kraljosovina wrote:

mrs v. viper wrote: I often get that, because I have so high morals, I can't even live up to them myself.
people will always think you want to be "better than them", even when in truth you just want to be better than yourself.
Don't let it get to you!

That's interesting, any examples?

well for exemple lately there was an incident with an ex-student from my college. He had broken it off because he didn't felt right, but continued taking photos, and portraied some of our class. Now these photos were, from a design students POV, really bad. but he kept uploading them and some of our classmates supported him still, and people got tired of it and started to make fun of it (it was funny I guess, with how he thought he made good photos).
It ended in somewhat opening a fb group like "Stop Person X taking photos" etc.
When they showed that page to me I felt really sorry for him and I said so. Yes, the photos were bad, and he suffered from a wrong picture of his own ability, but in the end he was just having fun and I thought that page went a bit too far.
Everyone got real quiet and then started to defend themselves and called me "holy". While I didn't really wanted to make them feel bad at all, i totally got them, justs didn't want to be a part of it. I knew I could have doen simliar "fun" in other situations. But they thought I wanted to "call them off" you know. while I only felt sorry for him, maybe because noone else did...

I don't know if this is a good exemple for what I meant, but in general people don't like it if they are made aware of the things they do wrong according to morals they claim to be their own too, and that happens alot just because people don't think. (me included, to be sure )

yes in that particular thing, but in general I don't. it was just this moment were I felt sorry for the "bullied" one. I know in another moment I could have been one of them, esp. because it WAS kinda funny. which is my point, I try to point these things out when i remmeber them in hope i might remember them more often, but that sometimes feels to others as if I want to remember them about their flaws. which is not the case, but they don't like the feeling.